Same here. I have my share of pairings that give me the creeps, and sometimes I can't stop myself from mentioning this in my journal. But I hope I've never declared "nobody must ship X/Y because it's so PROBLEMATIC" as opposed to some mutterings about how I personally can't stand x/y.

And the race about whose ship is the most socially progessive (complete with declaring all other ships as less so) is truly ridiculous.