Yeah, shipping as a sign of progressiveness is something that I've always found a bit odd, but thinking that you're liberal for shipping het is even sillier. Femslash, meanwhile, seems to be in their own corner, as usual.

It's like you can't like white characters, especially not when they are male. They have to suck by default. I feel that is kind of approaching the problem from the wrong end.

And fandom is of course srs bsnss, so nothing can be done just because you like it.