Yep. And the flip side of that is, Anya doesn't have any good friends. I think it's partly a weird side effect of the character starting off comic relief and becoming One of the Gang -- they began with a hilariously off-putting and abrasive character who doesn't think it's wrong to kill people, but it had to turn into a serious portrait of a character who ... doesn't have any friends, and still doesn't really seem to get that it's wrong to kill people. (I do love "Selfless," but I wish there'd been any follow-up at all that wasn't focused on Xander/Anya.)

I just might! It's especially funny to me because I love early Wesley (way early -- BtVS through S1 of AtS) best.